Maybe you’re tired of being single and want a serious relationship with a guy that will accept you as you are? A study by the AARP concluded that gay men over 40 are the most un-coupled group in America. Since marriage is often a great source of happiness it’s a good idea to seek a real partner. If you are tired of the drugged-up twinks back home then here are 7 good reasons you should consider dating a Filipino.
They Are Young and Fresh
According to the Philippine Statistics Authority, the average Filipino male is just 22 years old, nice! In addition to that Asia has the lowest obesity rates on the planet. That’s why a Filipino is more likely to be young and fit than other guys.
What’s even better is they don’t care about age. Even in Filipino-Filipino relationship, wide age gaps are commonplace. Asian culture actually respects age and its codified in law. Senior citizens in The Philippines are entitled to special discounts, they get their own shorter lines at service counters, and they are treated with respect unlike in the west.
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They Don’t Care About Race
Whether you’re black, white, Asian, or even green and blue you can find a Filipino for you. While there is colorism in The Philippines (as with all of Asia) if you come here you’ll find that many of them have evolved away from that and will look past any archaic notions of white skin beauty. Come as you are to The Philippines and you will find love.
They Actually Want Love
A big problem in the Filipino dating scene is most of the guys want masculine straight-acting guys; they call them ‘bisexuals’. Because these guys know they’re in high demand they often will ask for money and play the field. Many Filipinos get tired of trying to buy a boyfriend and will look to foreign men who are serious about them and treat them as a human being instead of a source of income.
Filipinos Like to Take Care of Their Partners
A Filipino will take care of his partner. If you date a Filipino you’ll be taken care of like you’ve never experienced before. He’ll cook for you, keep the house clean, and make sure you’re not spending too much money.
Filipinos Are Affectionate
So long as you get a Filipino that’s not a major closet case he’ll show you a lot of affection. Whenever I’m with my partner on a hot day he’ll always wipe the sweat off my face. I don’t even ask. He just instinctively takes out a handkerchief and wipes my face. It’s those small things that make me love dating Filipinos.
They Are Family-Oriented
The family is the most important thing to a Filipino. Filipinos love family and want one of their own. It’s very rare that you’ll find a Filipino that doesn’t want to have a family and just wants to go to the club every Friday night. Their dedication to their family is profound and amazing to watch.
They’re Not Demanding
If you’ve dated twinks back home then you know many of them have high expectations. They expect to be treated like princesses because they have so many other mature guys flirting with them. In The Philippines it’s the exact opposite. They will be competing for you! You don’t need to woo a Filipino with expensive gifts. The most important thing a Filipino wants to see is that you’re serious. Once you prove you’re serious he’ll treat you with such love and respect you’ll feel overwhelmed.
You’ll Experience Love Like Never Before
Once you find a Filipino that loves you they make the best partners you’ll ever have. A Filipino that truly loves you will make you experience love in a way that you’ve never experienced in your entire life. He’ll do whatever it takes to make you happy and hopefully, you’ll do the same for him. I’m a techie so I spend most of my days staring at my laptop looking at code and graphs. Suffice it to say I don’t care about clothes or anything of the sort.
I’ll never forget one day I tried to go out to go to the store but my boyfriend wouldn’t let me go because my shirt was wrinkled. He didn’t want his lover (me) to be seen in clothes that weren’t ironed. He made me give him my shirt and he ironed it and then let me go out. That was when I knew he was the right one to be my husband.