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Why Older Men Make Better Boyfriends

Some people may balk at the idea of dating a man 10, 20, or even 30 years older than them but the truth is they’re the ones missing out. Here is my list of reasons why older men make better boyfriends.

They’re Serious

Okay so not every old guy is serious but most are. After about 28 men begin to seriously seek a partner. Before that a lot of young guys consider a ‘relationship’ as someone that they sleep with more than once. A mature man is more likely to want someone to settle down with.

Sex is Mutual

How many of us have been with that self-centered 21-year-old twink that thinks he’s God’s gift to gay men? *raises hand*. Yeah, with older men that’s less likely to happen. A mature man is a man that understands that the sex doesn’t end until you both cum not just him. There aren’t too many 45-year-old minute men out there.

They’re Established

I don’t personally consider myself as incredibly picky but a major criterion of mine is that a guy I’m talking to has to have a stable job and earns his own money. A male in his 40’s and 50’s is more likely to have a real job and can support himself. I don’t know about you but I’d take a 35 year old with a stable job over a 19 year old twink that works at Taco Bell any day of the week! If you date someone older it’s less like you’ll be asked for money or expected to give expensive gifts.

They Know How to Make it Work

No I’m not talking about between the sheets so get your mind out of the gutter. I’m saying in a relationship you won’t get into arguments over stupid petty things like “oh did you just look at that other guys’ butt?! How could you!”. Most older guys have had a few relationships under their belts so they don’t sweat the small stuff.

They’ll be Proud to Have You!

Let’s face it; a lot of older men are really attracted to younger guys. That’s why if you date someone older than you he’s more likely to be patient with you and proud to have you at his side. I’m not saying you should be a jerk and try to take advantage of that. I’m just saying it feels so good to know that your man is proud to have you and values you. If age isn’t a problem for you then you can set up a profile for free on today.

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